[{"@context":"https:\/\/schema.org\/","@type":"Article","@id":"https:\/\/www.astevia.cz\/jak-si-udrzet-pratelstvi-na-cely-zivot\/#Article","mainEntityOfPage":"https:\/\/www.astevia.cz\/jak-si-udrzet-pratelstvi-na-cely-zivot\/","headline":"Jak si udr\u017eet p\u0159\u00e1telstv\u00ed na cel\u00fd \u017eivot?","name":"Jak si udr\u017eet p\u0159\u00e1telstv\u00ed na cel\u00fd \u017eivot?","description":"P\u0159\u00e1telstv\u00ed nejsou v\u017edy jednoduch\u00e1. Stejn\u011b tak jako v\u017edy netrvaj\u00ed od d\u011btstv\u00ed a\u017e do konce \u017eivota. \u017divotn\u00ed dr\u00e1hy n\u00e1s v\u0161ech vedou r\u016fzn\u00fdmi sm\u011bry a je naprosto p\u0159irozen\u00e9, \u017ee jsou obdob\u00ed, kdy se potk\u00e1vaj\u00ed s\u00a0cestami n\u011bkoho jin\u00e9ho v\u00edce, jindy zase m\u00e9n\u011b, a stejn\u011b tak se m\u016f\u017ee objevit obdob\u00ed, kdy se neprot\u00ednaj\u00ed v\u016fbec a pokra\u010duj\u00ed d\u00e1le ka\u017ed\u00e1 zvl\u00e1\u0161\u0165. […]","datePublished":"2019-06-12","dateModified":"2023-06-07","author":{"@type":"Person","@id":"https:\/\/www.astevia.cz\/author\/#Person","name":"","url":"https:\/\/www.astevia.cz\/author\/","identifier":1,"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/89f417dfbb336d235b856435ef935ffa51c2f646edc1f5c4e6fccf32a9c88173?s=96&d=mm&r=g","url":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/89f417dfbb336d235b856435ef935ffa51c2f646edc1f5c4e6fccf32a9c88173?s=96&d=mm&r=g","height":96,"width":96}},"publisher":{"@type":"Organization","name":"astevia.cz","logo":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"\/logo.png","url":"\/logo.png","width":600,"height":60}},"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/www.astevia.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/img_a348788_w2095_t1563643845.jpg","url":"https:\/\/www.astevia.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/img_a348788_w2095_t1563643845.jpg","height":0,"width":0},"url":"https:\/\/www.astevia.cz\/jak-si-udrzet-pratelstvi-na-cely-zivot\/","wordCount":510,"articleBody":"P\u0159\u00e1telstv\u00ed nejsou v\u017edy jednoduch\u00e1. Stejn\u011b tak jako v\u017edy netrvaj\u00ed od d\u011btstv\u00ed a\u017e do konce \u017eivota. \u017divotn\u00ed dr\u00e1hy n\u00e1s v\u0161ech vedou r\u016fzn\u00fdmi sm\u011bry a je naprosto p\u0159irozen\u00e9, \u017ee jsou obdob\u00ed, kdy se potk\u00e1vaj\u00ed s\u00a0cestami n\u011bkoho jin\u00e9ho v\u00edce, jindy zase m\u00e9n\u011b, a stejn\u011b tak se m\u016f\u017ee objevit obdob\u00ed, kdy se neprot\u00ednaj\u00ed v\u016fbec a pokra\u010duj\u00ed d\u00e1le ka\u017ed\u00e1 zvl\u00e1\u0161\u0165.\tStejn\u011b jako na v\u0161ech vztaz\u00edch, kter\u00e9 udr\u017eujeme s\u00a0druh\u00fdmi lidmi, i na p\u0159\u00e1telstv\u00ed mus\u00edme pracovat. Nic nen\u00ed zadarmo, a kvalitn\u00ed vztahy u\u017e v\u016fbec ne. Mus\u00edme se sna\u017eit a pe\u010dovat o n\u011b jako o kv\u011btiny \u2013 pravideln\u011b zal\u00e9vat, kdy\u017e je pot\u0159eba, vyt\u00e1hnout je na sv\u011btlo v\u011bnovat jim n\u011bco ze sv\u00e9ho \u017eivota. Abych v\u0161ak nemluvili jen v\u00a0metafor\u00e1ch, poj\u010fme si nast\u00ednit p\u00e1r z\u00e1kladn\u00edch pravidel, kter\u00e1 pot\u0159ebujeme pro to, aby na\u0161e p\u0159\u00e1telstv\u00ed trvalo v\u011bky a p\u0159eklenulo i ta nejt\u011b\u017e\u0161\u00ed spole\u010dn\u00e1 obdob\u00ed:\t1.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Mluvme a bu\u010fme up\u0159\u00edmn\u00ed.\tChceme si b\u00fdt s\u00a0n\u011bk\u00fdm bl\u00edzc\u00ed, mus\u00edme s\u00a0n\u00edm mluvit. Nejen o sob\u011b, ale i o n\u011bm, o ostatn\u00edch lidech, o ud\u00e1lostech, kter\u00e9 se d\u011bj\u00ed v\u00a0na\u0161em okol\u00ed, o \u010demkoli, co n\u00e1s napadne. Mluvme a p\u0159edev\u0161\u00edm nel\u017eeme. P\u0159\u00e1tel\u00e9 by m\u011bli b\u00fdt na\u0161imi zrcadly, bu\u010fme i my t\u011bmi jejich. Je-li to t\u0159eba, \u0159ekn\u011bme pravdu, i v\u00a0p\u0159\u00edpad\u011b, \u017ee nen\u00ed zrovna p\u0159\u00edjemn\u00e1.\t\t2.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Poslouchejme a reagujme.\tKamar\u00e1di nejsou jen od mluven\u00ed, n\u011bkdy je pot\u0159eba druh\u00e9mu jen naslouchat. T\u0159eba m\u00e1 zrovna spoustu z\u00e1\u017eitk\u016f nebo zl\u00e9 obdob\u00ed a pot\u0159ebuje se n\u00e1m sv\u011b\u0159it. Bu\u010fme pozorn\u00ed, se\u0159a\u010fme si v\u0161e, co usly\u0161\u00edme a vytvo\u0159me si n\u011bjak\u00fd n\u00e1zor. Sna\u017eme se poskytovat druh\u00e9mu zp\u011btnou vazbu a nekrmit ho pot\u00e9 jen obvykl\u00fdmi fr\u00e1zemi o tom, jak se v\u0161e sprav\u00ed a v\u0161e bude dobr\u00e9. Rozeb\u00edrejme s\u00a0n\u00edm probl\u00e9my, p\u0159em\u00fd\u0161lejme o nich, hledejme spole\u010dn\u011b \u0159e\u0161en\u00ed.\t3.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Netrucujme a usmi\u0159ujme se v\u017edy jako prvn\u00ed.\tP\u0159esto\u017ee n\u011bkdy m\u016f\u017ee b\u00fdt t\u011b\u017ek\u00e9 p\u0159ekonat svou hrdost a zejm\u00e9na tehdy, kdy\u017e se s\u00a0kamar\u00e1dem po\u0159\u00e1dn\u011b poh\u00e1d\u00e1me, nikdy nenech\u00e1vejme dusno mezi n\u00e1mi p\u0159\u00edli\u0161 dlouho st\u00e1t. Berme to tak, \u017ee kamar\u00e1di jsou n\u011bco jako na\u0161e rodina. Jsou-li n\u00e1m bl\u00edzc\u00ed, nesna\u017eme se je po ka\u017ed\u00e9 h\u00e1dce vymazat ze sv\u00e9ho \u017eivota. Naopak, sna\u017eme se je v\u00a0na\u0161ich \u017eivotech udr\u017eet. Nebu\u010fme ura\u017een\u00ed, sna\u017eme se situaci napravit, i tehdy, m\u00e1me-li pocit, \u017ee jsme neshodu nezp\u016fsobili. P\u0159ijd\u011bme tomu na kloub a spole\u010dn\u011b za\u010dn\u011bme zase od za\u010d\u00e1tku.                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        3.5\/5 - (4 votes)        "},{"@context":"https:\/\/schema.org\/","@type":"BreadcrumbList","itemListElement":[{"@type":"ListItem","position":1,"name":"Jak si udr\u017eet p\u0159\u00e1telstv\u00ed na cel\u00fd \u017eivot?","item":"https:\/\/www.astevia.cz\/jak-si-udrzet-pratelstvi-na-cely-zivot\/#breadcrumbitem"}]}]